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Radical self-care and wellness involve addressing the root cause of what impacts or threatens our well-being.
Wellness

Radical Wellness: Reclaiming And Sustaining My Wellbeing

As difference-makers, we are wired to aspire and achieve! Our aspirations represent our hopes and dreams in seed form. To realize our dreams and goals, we must move from aspiration to action! The activation stage is no joke! It requires radical self-care and wellness. Radical self-care and wellness involve addressing the root cause of what impacts or threatens our well-being. The word radical comes from the Latin word “radix,” which means root. Addressing the root causes of issues that affect our wellness paves the way for us to both reclaim and sustain the best version of ourselves as we work towards making our goals and dreams a reality. Let’s explore three self-care practices that promote radical wellness.   

Cartoon image of woman hugging herself Showing Up For Yourself 
Showing up for yourself means loving and respecting yourself in your decisions and actions. It will be challenging to show up for others in a healthy way if you don’t prioritize consistently showing up for yourself. Showing up for yourself may mean saying “no” to people, places, and things that compromise your well-being. Take some time to evaluate and celebrate how you are showing up for yourself. You are worth it! 

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Honoring Your Boundaries 
Personal boundaries consist of the expectations and limits we set for ourselves within relationships. Boundaries define the “borders” of our relationships. Borders fulfill a dual role of both granting and limiting access. One of my favorite Maya Angelou quotes is, “You teach people how to treat you.” We “teach” people how to treat us in two ways: by how we treat ourselves and the behaviors we allow or accept from others. Think about some ways that you can better honor and clarify your boundaries.

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Releasing The Habit Of Overextending 
Overextending ourselves depletes our energy and capacity, leaving us feeling stressed and overwhelmed. As a child, I spent many days at my maternal grandmother’s home. We called her “Good Momma.” When she was feeling stressed or overwhelmed, she would often say, “Right now, I feel like a lost ball in high weeds.” I didn’t know exactly what she meant back then. But as an adult, I can totally relate! When we notice that we are constantly running on “empty,” it’s time to recommit to showing up for ourselves. 
 
Procrastination and disorganization, along with people-pleasing and trying to fulfill the unrealistic expectations of others, can lead to being overextended. There are also seasons of life when we have to recalibrate and reevaluate. What was manageable in a previous season may not be manageable in this one. Consider the relationships or obligations that prompt you to stretch beyond your limits. What are some ways you can disrupt the cycle of overextending yourself? 

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Showing up for yourself, honoring your boundaries, and releasing the habit of overextending yourself are three powerful ways to support self-care and wellness. Which of these three areas resonates most with you? I encourage you to identify an action step you can take in that area to enhance your well-being. 

Enid Gaddis, Licensed Therapist, DEI Leader

ABOUT ENID
 
I am a wife, mother, licensed therapist, and DEI leader. I am also the author of the Black Mail Blog, where I love to share lesser-known black history facts.  
 
Contact me on LinkedIn or email: enidgaddis@yahoo.com

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